Obsession..

Women tend to obsess over a guy after a kiss, hug or any physical contact that has been made between them. It is a natural habit, that we do after our emotions have been twisted into a misleading interpretation from the opposite sex.  I have learnt that most men, do not obsess over a girl they always move on.  Unless your the exception.

Why do women obsess over a guy once they have received all the attention? 

Clearly, it shows ( through my own experience) that we love it and the attention leads to curiosity that has never been completely ended or the job hasnt been finished? Though, left to linger? Ok. How many of us just go for drinks and do not expect to hook up or even pick up. Well I'm surely one of them would happen 90% of the time. Men just want pussy. 

We overly read the signs and then we get ourselves trapped. Often it's hard to move on and then we start obsessing. 

Now the tables have been twisted and I've just ended my games that did screw the guys up the wall and then I would receive the karma back at me by being drawn into the guy. 

I have compared the many guys that I have met during this past year. Though, there is one that really made me happy. Way... back. My blog entry that has questioned about friendship? well my answer is Yes, I know the difference with friends and lovers. 

I have chosen to be a friend. I want to build upon it because this particular friend has made an influence and now I want to believe that love is out there and it will seek for me, unexpectedly. 

Lets just say that the love game has died. And I want to be the respectable girl again that has strong morals and values. I want to continue being who I am... the girl next door? 

A wise person told me this

It takes 7 months to get over a past love.

90 Days to get to know the person well enough. 

90 Days to physically get to know them.

Then you will love. 

You either continue the journey or not..

This is what I am going to believe in.